Fancy really changing your life?
Scrap New Year’s resolutions but commit instead to challenging yourself to live better throughout 2013 and beyond. The only way to do this is to seize this day and those that follow and take action to bring changes about.
You will have down days, life events will send you curve-balls and you will have moments of self-doubt. The key is to keep going even if the steps to change are tiny ones. Who wants to stand still?
I am going to have a Very Groovy New Year and this is what it will look like.
1. I will get slim by the end of the year by sticking with Slimming World which has already brought success my way. In November, I set a target of losing a stone by the end of 2012 and lost 13 pounds. Near enough and shows setting targets helps.
2. I will find more paid and fulfilling work. This time last year I had no paid work.
3. I will attend BritMums Live and other blogger events. This time last year I had not met a blogger.
4. I will say yes to opportunities including meet-ups with online friends. Watch out ladies, you know who you are.
5. I will make at least one friend locally.
6. I will set up a new website and start advertising what I can do.
7. I will go self-hosted with a new blog title.
8. I will continue to leave alcohol alone. OK so there was a blip for New Year’s Eve but I am now saying farewell to Doctor Bacardi. I have cut my drinking right down in recent weeks and feel so much better for it.
9. I am stronger than I sometimes think and will cope with whatever unexpected or nasty stuff that comes my way this year.
10. I will invest energy in those that do the same for me because it is they who are worth it.
So, have yourself a Groovy 2013 with me and other mums. Read all about it.
What will be your first step?

You go, girl! I’ll say hello at Britmums – I’ll be the skinny middle-aged woman dressed like a teenage boy
See you in June and you I love your self-portrait
I think this is a great start and we share a few of the same challenges – one being meeting new people
Add Betty’s to our revolutions for this year! That is what my son calls resolutions
Yes please. I’d like to Groove too.
I think you are already very groovy Ellen. You were a huge help to me last year and I thank you for that.
Very motivating post! Have decided to make this year all about putting more Life in my Day, in whatever ways seem the most appropriate and life affirming. Looking forward to 2013.
Love the saying “more Life in my Day”. Here’s to you Polly and new adventures coming your way
going booze free for a month (initially!) and raising some cash for a local mental health charity while doing so! Am also going to try and spend less time but more quality time on the old ‘pooter, if you know what I mean! Good luck to all with endeavours. Life is a work in progress…..
Good luck with your resolutions. I hope 2013 brings you all the happiness and continued success that you deserve x
Sounds like you are really motivated. I may come back and read this every time I feel like breaking my new year resolutions!
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Sounding good, just tried to leave a big comment on yoru weight loss pst but it got lost, grrr!
Wishing you a fab 2013. Mich x
Hi kate
I’m back again with another post to link up http://www.chickenruby.com/2013/01/well-kate-over-on-her-groovymum-blog-is.html
Sounds great! Are you carrying on with Grovovy mums or replacing it with you new self host naked groove?
Fab post to kick start the year, followed by the fantastic new Naked Mums blog. Lets hope we can all inspire even more people this year